Disconnect to Reconnect: How Low-Tech Stays Bring Families Together
There’s a quiet magic in moments when screens fade and family conversation fills the room. At Bhode, Tongariro Cottage and Ringa Kaha Cabin are designed to help families disconnect — whether it’s a fully off-grid escape or a low-tech, TV-free stay — so you can focus on each other. Here’s why disconnected stays work so well for families, and how to make yours gentle, enjoyable, and memorable.
Why Disconnecting Works
Research into digital detox programmes consistently shows benefits for mood, sleep, and present-moment awareness. Families report reduced anxiety, improved sleep, and a greater sense of calm after stepping away from notifications and screens. The market for these retreats is growing as travellers increasingly seek meaningful connection, rest, and time together.
Family Benefits
Deeper Conversation
Without screens as a default, families naturally make space for meaningful questions, shared games, and quiet reflection.
Better Sleep and Routines
Fewer devices in the evening help adults and children maintain clearer sleep patterns and wake refreshed.
Shared Experiences
Hiking, board games, cooking together, or stargazing create memories that last far longer than photos or social media posts.
How to Prepare — Practical Checklist
Set Expectations: Let children know there will be less screen time; plan small rewards such as story hour or picnic.
Pack Alternatives: Board games, playing cards, favourite books, sketchpads, or outdoor toys.
Low-Tech Activities: Simple crafts or a scavenger-hunt list for little ones go a long way.
Plan One ‘Tech Moment’: If someone needs to check in, pick a fixed 15–30 minute slot so the rest of the day remains uninterrupted.
What to Do While You’re There
Take morning nature walks or gentle movement to start the day.
Cook together, let the kitchen become the centre of connection.
Plan one device-free evening: light a candle, share a meal, and tell stories.
For older kids: assign a simple nature task or sketching challenge to encourage observation and creativity.
Returning Home Gently
Coming home can feel jarring after a disconnected weekend. Keep the first evening low-key, make one mealtime device-free, and continue one new ritual from your stay to carry the calm forward.
Both Tongariro Cottage and Ringa Kaha Cabin offer thoughtful, low-tech spaces for families to reconnect. Tongariro Cottage provides a cosy, TV-free environment with games, boardwalks, and shared spaces, while Ringa Kaha Cabin immerses you in the alpine environment for a fully disconnected, nature-filled retreat.